Casting the Love Guidance Spell

The first thing you do when making magic, is to have an intention, you decide what it is you want, create a vivid image in your mind’s eye and trust your intuition. It helps if you absolutely believe in what you are doing and the powers that you are working with. Try to begin with a positive frame of mind and a belief in your abilities, there is a degree of trust and a great deal of faith that is at the core of magic. Calming essential oils create an ambient setting, try lavender, rose, jasmine or gardenia.

You will need the following items for this spell:

Full Moon
Blood
Clear skies

A spell to help you find your love, the spell is bound to the cycle of the moon and lasts until the next one 😉

Casting Instructions for ‘Love Guidance spell Spell’

Go outside at night when the moon is full and the sky clear, prick your finger and scatter a few drops of blood around, chant these words

O sacred moon
Watch over me from above
Accept this offering
And may your light guide me to
My one true love

How to Cast the Love Attraction Ritual

If you’re ready to attract a new love into your life, then this might be just the spell you’ve been looking for! The effects of this spell generally start off with people noticing that they’re getting a lot more positive attention than they normally would. Most people say they feel like they’ve been turned into an attraction magnet, attracting better types of people than they’ve ever attracted before! People will find you more alluring, more attractive, and more enticing than ever!

You will need the following items for this spell:

Sea salt or epsom salt
lavender oil
love bath crystals (purchased at pegan store or online)*optional*
apple blossom or rose insense
red or pink candle
pink parchment paper
pink red or white tealight candles
red pen
white clothing
rose petals
rose quartz
rose tea
honey*optional

This is a 2 part ritual to help you remove negative blocks and attract love into your life.

Casting Instructions for ‘Love Attraction Ritual Spell’

Part 1) prepare your bath and fill it with warm water put as many tealights as you can in your bathroom. Add the salt lavender oil and bath crystals into the water. Now close the lights and emerge yourself in the water with the intention of clearing your heart mind and soul from all negativity. Say a small prayer to your chosen diety asking to cleanse you from all negativity while doing this you should be pouring the batg water on your head.now relax and clear your mind of all thoughts and meditate for at least five minutes.now submerge your whole body if you can into the water three times. Give thanks to your diety and you can shower off with only water. Get out of the tub and let yourself air dry. Fill and save a cup with the bath water

Part 2) now wear the white clothing and move to your altar set up your altar with the herbs and rose quartz. Light the insense again clear your mind and using the red pen and parchment paper write down your wish as if you already got it for example *thank you goddess i am so happy and greatful for all the love you have brought into my life* etc… write everything you want in detail and give thanks as if its already yours. Now when your done dress the red candle with lavender or any other love drawing oil make youself a hot cup of rose tea and put the parchment paper with your wishes under the candle. Light the candle and meditate on our desired outcome visualuzing love surrounding you. Keep the parchment paper under your pillow for 30 days and during these 30 days everyday thank your diety for the best thing that occured to you that day. After the 30 days your wish will come true and love will be attracted to you like a magnet.
enjoy 🙂

7 Things You Should Never Forget Before Having Sex

Making Sex Better

If you want your partner to be happy with your performance, then there are a few things you need to do before you even take your clothes off. In fact, you should start prepping for sex from the moment you wake up. If you have a strong feeling that you’ll be getting lucky on any particular day, then you need to make it your mission to keep your body looking banging. Check out these physical and mental preparations for better sex!

Make Sure You’re Ready to Have Sex With Them

Sometimes people have sex simply for the pleasure of it; other times people have sex because they see it as an act of love. If you’ve started a relationship with someone, you may want to hold off on the sex. Sex can bring up feelings and emotions that aren’t really there (yet or at all). And the research supports it. Surveys also suggest that many relationships start off on a bett
er foot when a couple waits long enough to learn each other’s communication styles before sex.

Think Positive

Be confident about who you are and what you look like. Think good things about yourself. A confident partner is a sexy partner and sex is great when it is between two happy people who are also willing (and not hesitant) to please each other. If you think positive, you’ll feel good and your partner will feel good about you. Think positively about the experience of sex before you have sex!

Relax

It may surprise you to know that sexual organ malfunction (for men and women) due tostress is a common issue in the bedroom. Sex is supposed to be fun, so why do we often make such a big deal about it? Why do we stress out over pleasing ourselves and our partners? And why do we let work and life stress get in the way of a good time? Just take a deep breath and relax before sex.

Value the Journey to Your Orgasm

Surveys suggest that many sexual encounters fizzle out when one partner is too focused on achieving an orgasm. Yes, orgasms are great. However, the people who report having the best sex also say they enjoy the path towards the finale, as much as the finale itself. If you find yourself with a partner who is running a marathon to get to the finish line alone, don’t hesitate to speak up before sex.

Talk About What Your Prefer

Sex isn’t always great the first time two people have it together because they don’t take the time to talk about what they like and don’t like. In fact, many women are uncomfortable telling men what they want in bed. Ladies, don’t be shy! If you’re going to have sex with someone, you should feel comfortable enough to tell them what you like and don’t when it comes to sex.

Foreplay

You warm up before you run a marathon, right? Sex works the same way! Don’t just jump into things the moment your clothes come off! Take your time and engage in some foreplay before sex. It can be as simple as letting your partner explore your erogenous zones and if you want to make it more complicated than that, talk to your partner about the things that turn them on.

Limit Alcohol

When it comes to sex, people often use alcohol to help them relax, but drinking too much can have a negative effect on your libido and your body. If you need a drink to loosen up, go for it, but limit yourself to one or two at the most. If you have more, you could be ruining your night and your partner’s.

Charmed Fruit Love Spell

You will need the following items for this spell:

Pomegranate
Your energy
Sun energy
Moon energy

This spell puts a charm on this fruit so you can break up,love,and get beauty I can guarantee that this works 99.99% of the chance it was given to me through a spirit during my meditation.

Casting Instructions for ‘Charmed fruit:love Spell’

First get a fresh pomegranate, start to put your energy in it,

NOTE*** you’ll start to feel tired
Put it in sun light and the moon light to absorb there energy
After you do all this
On a waxing crescent moon eat two seeds to get beauty or get your lover to eat one and you eat one and you guys will start to be even deeper in love

NOTE*** if you don’t want them to be with you no more
On a waning crescent moon eat one then you have the lover eat one and you guys will drift even further apart.

How To Cast a Close Relationship Spell

Be very careful with love spells. Part of your oath to the craft is to harm none, and that includes taking away a person’s free will. Always double check your wording and intent to make sure you are not trying to rule another person or their feelings with your magick. A good way to judge the ethics of a spell is to ask yourself, how woud you feel if someone would cast the spell on you that you are about to cast.

download (19) You will need the following items for this spell:

A pink candle
Sandalwood oil
2 sheets of white paper
Pen or pencil (red is good but not necessary)

This is a spell that will help to solidify a relationship you already have, to create a deeper bond between you and a loved one.

Casting Instructions for ‘Close Relationship Spell’

This is a spell you should do together, so hopefully your partner appreciates and accepts your witchcraft practices. The first step is for each of you to create a list of the qualities they like and admire most in the other person, written on the white paper. This should be a well thought out list, not something hastily written down. Have at least 6 to 10 items. Both of you should bring your lists to your altar area when you plan on doing the spell (Friday nights are best).

Light your candle and get comfortable facing each other. Call Aphrodite (or other appropriate love goddess) and repeat the ritual:

Lady Aphrodite, join our ritual tonight
Bless our union and bless our rite
Help open our eyes,
Help strengthen our bond,
Help bring us together,
Forever

Both you and your partner should repeat the words. When finished, each take out your list and read aloud the items on it. When you are done, dab a little sandalwood oil on your thumb and press it to the top of each page like you are leaving a thumb-print.

Thank Aphrodite for joining your spell, and then blow out the candle. Fold up the sheets of paper and keep them both together in a safe place in the bedroom

How To Cast The Energy Love Spell

These types of love spells are cast using your positive energy you still have for the relationship and fuel that energy with the power necessary to rekindle that same feeling you share into your lover.

You will need the following items for this spell:

1 red (possibly cinnamon) candle
1 Ring (or other piece of jewelry)

This spell is a basic energy spell and is not meant to manipulate a certain person to love you but to attract new love to you. When preforming this spell it is ok to think of certain aspects or characteristics of people but please don’t direct it at a specific person.

Casting Instructions for ‘Energy Love Spell’

1. Go to a calm room where you won?t be disturbed and lay out your materials.

2. Hold the candle in your projective (dominant) hand, and briefly visualize what you want. Tense the muscles in your arm (building up your energy) and the relax (releasing you energy into the candle [this is charging the candle with the rituals intentions])

3. Light the candle. Let the candles aroma fill your lungs, feel the energy the candle has released.

4. See the energy moving through and around you (close your eyes and visualize it)

5. Once you feel a connection say at least twice:

images (36) Burning candle bring to me

The enduring love I seek

(these next few lines are used to

describe the kind of person your looking for)

6. Picture your new love there with you. Feel the candles energy take shape and surround you like a warm embrace. Imagine them whispering kind things in your ear. Really feel their presence. Spend about five minutes in deep thought about them and what it would be like to be with them.

7. Now pick up the ring in one hand and hold the candle in your other.

8. Once more feel the candles energy flowing into you; then let it flow into the ring as you are doing this say (chant):

love-spell1 Into this ring

I pour this energy

In doing so I call to be

This (wo)man I need with me

9. spend a few moments just letting the energy flow from the candle, to you, then into the ring. When you feel as though you are finished put the ring on and forget about it and the ritual. Let the magic take effect.

Note: You should take the ring off to sleep and shower or bathe. This ritual can also be performed with any other piece of jewelry.

7 Sex-Drive Killers for Women

If you don’t remember the last time you felt like having sex with a partner, you are probably suffering from low sex drive. A number of psychological and physiological factors can have a major impact on your libido. Read on to know more about the seven sex-drive killers.

Distractions

According to researcher, a good portion of women who are experiencing low libido, also find themselves distracted a good portion of the time they are in the bedroom. They could be worried about their “to-do list” or how their bodies look naked. But an interesting study involving women watching soft-core pornography shows that women can eliminate mental distractions if they focus on erotic imagery. So if you want to increase your chances of achieving orgasm, eliminate all distractions and treat yourself to some porn!

Complex Emotions

Most scientists agree that female arousal depends on more than hormones or attraction. In fact, her emotions, moods and prejudices often come into play. That’s why female libido is much more complex than male libido.

Lack of Sleep

You probably know how important sleep is to your overall health, but it also plays an important role in your sex life. Lack of sleep is wreaking havoc on your libido, ladies! You should get more sleep and here’s why: Studies suggest that women can gain as much as a 14 percent boost in their libido just by sleeping one extra hour per night. If you think about it, that likely offers more promise than a prescription Viagra for women (if they ever come up with one).

Age

Research suggests that age can play a big role in a woman’s libido.But before you assume that the older a woman is, the less aroused or interested in sex she gets, think again. Researchers at the University of Texas believe that women between the ages of 30 and 50 may have the strongest libido of all women. So if you fit into that age group, get your groove on often. Sex gets better with age!

Not Enough Foreplay

Some people aren’t getting the message about foreplay and that can be detrimental to the female libido. Think of foreplay as a warmup! You wouldn’t go running without stretching first, so why would you have sex without making sure your partner is fully aroused? Another benefit of having a sexually aroused partner is that they may be more open to trying something kinky than they would be if foreplay wasn’t on your love menu. Never expect a woman’s libido to be self-ignited. Sometimes you have to put just as much work in the pre-show as you do the finale.

Short Men

According to research done by Dan Ariely, a professor of psychology and behavioral economics, women feel sexually attracted to taller men (5’10” and above). On the short side? You may need to make an additional $42,000 per year than your taller competitors. But the good news is, not all women are attracted to taller men. Many women are impressed by more than just height or money! But if you have to work a little harder in the beginning of a relationship, all that work is just going to benefit you in the long run.

Your Figure

Research at the University of Oxford suggests that children born to curvier women tend to me smarter than those boring to their thinner counterparts. Curvier women often have lower cholesterol, fewer instances of heart disease, they live longer, and they experience better sex. Wait, better sex? Yup! The research suggests that curvier women have more testosterone and testosterone may play a role in the female libido. Not blessed with an hourglass figure? Eating a healthy, balanced diet can get your libido revved up too!

10 Biggest Relationship Mistakes

The universe gives us mixed signals when it comes to relationships, especially at the beginning. Should we have lots of sex, or hold out? Should we spend all our time together, or not be too available? Should we embrace total awkward honesty about our true selves, or put our best selves forward? It seems that, as hard as it is to find a partner, it’s even easier to mess things up and lose them. So what are the biggest mistakes people make in relationships?

Thinking Communication Is a One-Way Street

Dictatorial communication styles are often a symptom of mindsets of inequality. Whether it is you giving out the orders and venting for hours or your partner who thinks his way is the right way and you should have nothing to say, the relationship will suffer from degradation. Words can be powerful, but how you say them can be even more powerful. Examine your communication style and the mindsets it stems from. If it needs changing, change the communication dynamic by focusing first on your own style of communicating.

Red Flags Don’t Mean a Thing

Some personalities tend to ignore obvious signs at the beginning of a relationship that spell out trouble and warn that the subject of attraction is not exactly relationship material. So what that he tells you he was married eight times and each time it was the woman’s fault the relationship failed. Or that he guzzles a six-pack in front of the TV on your second date. Ask yourself this question: How was my blindness a product of my desperation for love? And perhaps your eyes will be open on the next go-round.

Making Foolish Conditioned Choices

The natural question arises: Do we really make the wrong choices in selecting a mate or does a relationship choose us so that we can fulfill a life lesson we agreed to learn? The answer is: it happens both ways. Conditioning sometimes drives the mate selection process forcing you to choose someone you are conditioned to believe suits you best. That is why many women choose a mate just like their father, especially if they are seeking the comfort of a familiar personality to start with. Or you may find yourself attracted to a bad boy thinking you will resurrect his soul and put him on the path of righteousness. This choice reflects a woman’s conditioned tendencies to see herself as a healer to mankind. The key is to identify the pattern in your choices and to determine if conditioning is driving them. Sometimes we can’t help attracting the wrong kind of person. They just seem to arrive on the relationship stage one after another. In this case, you are completing bad karma and you may have to acknowledge your mistake was in a previous life.

Led on Too Long

It doesn’t feel good to be left on hold wondering when he will stop playing the field and see that you were “the one” all along. You made yourself available, waited for his calls, loosened all other ties thinking dawn would break any day now. But if after two years you have not established an exclusive relationship, it’s likely you’ll never get the commitment you want. See the mistake of making yourself too available to someone who never wanted more than a casual relationship.

Breaking Up When You Need to Make Up

If you were too quick to leave a relationship in the past you know the pain you caused as well as the regrets you have. Flight behavior can represent a fear of intimacy or the inability to recognize that people can change with time when they value the love between them and each other. Fighting the urge to break up and developing some patience and understanding may very well save a relationship deemed too challenging.

Living Too Long Without Love

If it is love that you are after, you need to face the fact that you are lovable and that you deserve a partner who sees the sun, moon, and stars in your eyes. But if he doesn’t seem to be treating you with love and respect, keeps you at a distance and is self-absorbed, unresponsive or overly critical, the problem isn’t necessarily you. There is nothing worse than staying in a relationship that is impoverished or with a lover who is never in the mood for love. In fact, it is heart-breaking. Your mistake may be in expecting a turn-around by demanding better treatment. Demands seldom seem to work. The magical elixir may be to create a life outside the relationship that looks greener. If you matter anything to him and he see’s you’ve moved onto greener pastures, he may start to value what he lost. If not, you have created a new life to move all the way into.

Too Much Unsorted Emotional Baggage

Emptying the baggage that you should have left at the airport of your last relationship need not fly in the face of a new partner. In fact, you need to accomplish letting go of the regrets, guilt, shame, anger and grief before you enter another relationship. Maybe you think you have done it to your satisfaction, but just in case look beneath the lining to see if you are harboring something else inside.

Settling for the Short End of the Stick

Women who get no respect usually expect none. They are so conditioned to believe a woman is undeserving, can never measure up, and should be subservient that the short end of the stick seems taller than she feels. Therefore, she will ask for little and watch how her man commands her universe and his. Inequality is no joke, especially if you have lived it too many times or for two long a period of time. The mistake women make is thinking they can never expect equality without chasing away their man. The learning curve demands that a woman stop using the stepping stones of an outdate legacy and see herself forging a path of equality for the sake of the evolution of mankind.

Passing on Someone Perfect for You

If you are the type of woman who seeks the “perfect” man, you are guaranteed never to find him. In fact, you may have even passed on a man who was your divine complement (soulmate) thinking at the time you could do better. If you are in the habit of dissecting the men you attract, try instead to erect a new standard: “A divine design is better than mine.”

Admitting You Made Mistakes

Admitting you made mistakes in a relationship can be difficult to swallow especially if you are the kind of person who doesn’t like to admit they were wrong. The tendency may be put most of the blame on the other person and not take responsibility for your part. End the blame game by focusing instead on what behaviors from you contributed to the problems in the relationship. Then forgive yourself and make strides in learning from those mistakes, promising yourself never to do the same thing again.

Loving Two People at the Same Time

Can we truly love two people at once, or will we unavoidably be abandoning one love for another? And if indeed we can love two people at once, are we shortchanging one or both of them by doing so?

Some people would deny that you can truly and fully love more than one person at a time. In their view, love represents a total devotion of one person—heart, soul, and body—to another, which implies that you can never love a second person without taking something away from the first. But this assumes that whatever you give when you love someone is limited or scarce, so that giving some (or more) to Jane or Joe means giving less to Janet or John. This may be true with some resources like time or money, but not as obviously true with respect to affection; after all, parents can have more than one child without loving any of them less, so why can’t a person romantically love more than one person?

Can you love two people at once?

There could be fools around you who say that love happens just once in a lifetime. They may also say you can’ t love two people romantically at the same time. That just isn’t true. Love is more interesting and dynamic than that.

Love Has Undergone Changes

In the past few years, love has undergone more changes than the Coke bottle. Nowadays, love has many forms and people are less bothered about getting the approval of others, whether they be friends, parents, family or society. That is a good thing. But the real challenge is to figure out what kind of person is right for you.

Love the One You’re With?

There will be times in your life when you’ll feel like you are with the wrong person. There will be times in your life when you’ll feel like you’ll never find the right person. There may be a time in your life when you love two people at once. If you do, consider this advice from celebrated actor Johnny Depp, “If you love to people at the same time, choose the second one! Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.”

When it comes to love, it’s a must to find the right kind of emotional and mental connection. When you do, latch on to it and nurture it. It’s when you don’t really have that connection with your partner that a second person comes along dressed up as everything your partner isn’t and all that you’ve wished for.

Compare and Contrast

Compare your connections. Do a detailed analysis of the two loves in your life. What are the pros and cons of being with each? At different stages in life, we require different things from lovers. Do you feel like you’ve outgrown your first love? Will the second love be a good companion for your next life stage? If you feel like you’ve outgrown your partner, that may be the reason why you’re welcoming another lover into your life.

Tolerating the Distance

A lot of people tolerate the distance they feel from their partners and choose to live with it. But what they don’t realize is that they are doing something terrible to themselves (and their partners). If you tolerate the distance, you turn into an emotionally hollow person and this changes your outlook on love.

If you love two people, don’t ignore it. Don’t give up on the happiness you could have with someone else for a relationship commitment that is no longer working for you. They could be a coworker, neighbor or close friend. They could be your high school crush who’s suddenly back in your life.

More Than Just Lust

Please note, this feeling you have has to me more than just lust. You have to make sure you actually love two people! If it is more than lust, it needs to be given a chance to thrive if real love is important to you. You’ve fallen for someone else, and you need to search your feelings and find out why. What if they are the love of your life? Are you going to let an unhappy relationship get in your way? Are you going to let them pass you by? I’m not telling you to leave your partner, ruin someone’s life and abandon all your responsibilities. I’m asking you to consider what you may be missing in your current relationship and investigate what makes you really happy. All it takes is a little courage.

Are You Looking for a Very Powerful Love Spell?

Are you looking for a very powerful love spell that cannot be removed?

Get this free but powerful love spell and the one you have been longing for will be yours as you wish. But be very careful on using this love spell as it is so strong and associated with black magic.

You will need the following items for this spell:

Strawberry incense
Pink candles
A plate of strawberries
Melted chocolate

Chocolate is said to be an aphrodisiac, a mild euphoric, and helps to heal depression. It is therefore extremely effective in love potions and spells. In this spell two ingredients are brought together to help you to enchant your loved one.Strawberries are well known as lovers’ fruits.

Casting Instructions for ‘Very Strong Love Spell Spell’

Be very clear in your own mind what you want to happen before you start.
Be aware that it is not right to influence the other person against their will or their natural inclinations.You should use this spell to prepare the ground for true relationship.
Light the candles and the incense.
Dip each strawberry in the chocolate.
As you do so, visualize you and the other person together enjoying one another’s company, becoming closer and so on.
Say the words below (or something similar)as you prepare the fruit:

Lover, lover, come to me

And even then you shall be free

To come, to go just as you please

Until to stay your heart decrees. 7766934949e17aac4ef4843852c5527c

Do be aware that you have not put a time limit on this so if you cannot handle such an open relationship choose different words.
As you enjoy the fruit together be prepared to take responsibility for what occurs.

This spell can be quite powerful, particularly if you use the same pink candles when your lover arrives. Strawberries and chocolate both come under the rulership of Venus the Goddess of Love, though there is a belief that Jupiter also has a connection with strawberries.

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