Can Love Spells Be Permanent?


     Love spells can be very effective and long-lasting but only if you follow these six secrets of Old World Witchcraft to ensure successful love spells. 

You won’t want to miss #6! but before we dive into the magickal considerations, we need to set one very basic matter straight: Exactly how does a love spell work?

Imagine each person being surrounded by an energy field full of particles that are the energetic interpretation of the persons thoughts, emotions and inner desires. 

These particles are responsible for forming the persons reality, their reactions and their external desires. When a person does not love you (or have the feelings you desire them to have for you), it simply means those energetic particles are not present in their external energy field – because they are not naturally internally present.  What love spell magick does is it energetically inserts those desired energetic particles into the targets energy field. In a sense, it works like a virus or radiation. By surrounding the target with the energy of the desired effect, the targets energy field becomes “contaminated” with new thoughts, desires and in turn: actions.  If and when the “contamination” is persistent and magickally performed properly, the result will be a thorough seep into the physical and emotional mind of the target. 

Six Successful Love Spell Secrets Revealed:

Until unconditional self-love is embraced, most love spells will be very short lived. 

First thing you need to consider is your own state of well-being:

Are you anxious?
Have not fully dealt with childhood or young adult trauma?
Sexual guilt? Broken heart?

Don’t beat yourself up! We ALL have issues in one form or another – everyone experiences mental and emotional bruising at some point in their lives. The key is how we overcome those disempowering issues!

How many disempowering beliefs, emotions, illusions and judgmental misconceptions are still hindering your happiness today? Everyone experiences days or life patterns where we are feeling weighed down by negative thoughts, emotions or even possibly entities. Fear not! A simple banishing may be all you need to regain your balance and remove the unsightly influences.  We want to see you magickally succeed, therefore we will continue to be annoying by stressing the importance of the self-love concept. 

Once self-love is achieved, you will be one lean, mean love spell machine! In fact, this newfound energy will positively translate to all areas of your witchcraft. Whether it’s for abundance, health or even hexes!


While performing the spellwork, stay focused in the moment. Envision the desired goal as already manifested in this very present moment and get very clear about exactly what you’d like to experience. 

For example, envision making love with your desired partner. Get late-night, TV-MA graphic in your imagination! Now is not the time to play “proper lady”. 

The more real this FEELS to you, the more energy will be radiated from you and into your targets energy field. The 

This is intense work! You simply can’t let your mind wander about what’s for dinner.


If the love spell is on specific person, is the target currently in a relationship? Are their kids in the picture? Is (s)he a workaholic? Many different types of attachments or distractions exist! 

In order to properly perform the spellwork, you will need to orchestrate a plan to shatter their current reality in order to open their eyes to the wonders of you. Plain “Love Me” spells just won’t cut it, unless their current relationship is already rocky!

You must break down your desired goal into concrete spellwork steps!

For example:

  1. You must magickally influence the target to think about leaving their current relationship. This could be influenced by constant fighting with his/her current partner, mild depression, etc. The target will have to  actually go through with leaving the relationship. You must give him/her courage and the strength to leave the relationship. An alternative path to this would be to magickally influence his/her partner to leave your desired target. A very basic breakup spell usually gets this done in one fell swoop.
  2. The target will have to form feelings for you. This is the actual love spell!
  3. And finally, the target will have to actually be in a relationship with you, if that is your end-goal desire. 

Important Note: If this is “too dark” for you, simply skip doing love spells on a specific person altogether. Unless you are comfortable with your spellwork, you will only be wasting your time. Instead, do general love spells to welcome a new lover into your life.


At what time are performing your love spell rituals? 

Love magick works best while your desired lover is in a receptive state while in deep sleep. Yes, this means you will either have to stay up very, very late or wake up extremely early in the morning.  Assuming the desired lover goes to bed at 10pm and is the same time zone as you are, the best time to perform a love spell is between midnight and 4am. If you know your target is a night owl or wakes up middle of the night for work, you will need to adjust these hours accordingly.

Love spells should be performed at least in 3 consecutive nights. You may repeat the same love spell for three nights in a row, or simply create a mini-altar for your desired outcome and daily add candles and meditative energy to your cause.

If this is “too dark” for you based on your personal spiritual beliefs, simply skip doing love spells on a specific person altogether. Unless you are comfortable with your spellwork, you will only be wasting your time. Instead, do general love spells to welcome a new (unknown) lover into your life.


You must have a piece of the targets DNA!  This can be a few hairs from a pillow, fingernail clippings, a used condom, a dirty piece of clothing, etc. Get creative!

Unless you are an extremely experienced or naturally talented witch, you must have a piece of the targets biological material. This is a direct link to their energy field and their physical experience. 

Using only a birthdate and a name is not enough. You need a direct link!


The absolute most POWERFUL practice to add to your spellwork is a self-induced orgasm and menstrual blood. Don’t be grossed out here! Sexual energy and physical substance is the most powerful thing in this world. If you want REAL results, you will need to get over it and not be grossed out.

This is the blood that can create a human. This blood can create ANYTHING. The proteins that go into menstrual blood are the purest proteins a body can create. Your body is not “dirty”, despite what society has taught you to believe. Embrace your sexuality and your changing time of the month. This is literally the most powerful substance in the universe.

Dress a candle with your menstrual blood and end the spell with a self-induced orgasm. If you have the targets personal concerns (or if your love spell was general), you should see results within 48 hours. Yes, it works that well!