Love is the most powerful emotion, and because of this, it’s also the most studied emotions. But it remains a bit of a mystery. We’ve all experienced a yearning for somebody else even if we don’t know how they feel about us. Most people have experienced the pain of rejection. Desiring somebody else leaves no doubt in our hearts.
Well, there may be a fix for these mysterious and torturous experiences! Love is so powerful and vital in our lives that we pursue it any way we can. The power of love is why love spells are among the easiest and most common spells to cast. Controlling our love lives is an alluring thought. Love spells can guide us down a path of self-discovery to our true love.
Do love spells actually work?
Love spells are vehicles for our passionate pursuit of love. People have performed spellcasting and similar rituals since the beginning of time. Native Americans practice smudging, the sacred ritual that involves burning sage to draw negative energy out of the body and to purify the physical environment. Wiccans cast spells to achieve desired results. Religious people pray to deities to ask for things like health and love.
Across all faiths and cultures, the process of asking for what we crave begins with focus, faith, mindfulness, and a willingness to ask. And since spells are rooted in your goals, intentions, and desires, they always contain components of belief and confidence. Radiating your positive energy into the universe will attract what you desire.
If you don’t get what you asked for, you may think the spell didn’t work. But perhaps the spell really is working, just not in the way you expected it to. It may have worked in the way that was best for you.
If you do get what you asked for, you may suspect that you’re simply experiencing a placebo effect, because your firm belief in the power of your spell affected your behavior. Perhaps you became more confident or outgoing around the person you desired. But even in this case, when it comes right down to it, the love spell clearly did work!
Ensure Your Spell is Successful
Whether you want to rekindle an old flame or make a new connection, there are some things you must understand before you attempt to cast your first spell. These things have more to do with you than with the object of your desire.
To create the perfect casting conditions, use some natural elements, such as earth, rocks, water, or fire. These natural elements help center us, increase our ability to focus, and make it easier for us to be in the moment. With today’s abundant technology, it’s easy to shift our focus off of the here-and-now. This makes casting love spells harder than it needs to be. Grounding yourself prior to casting your spell is easier when you focus on something natural.
- Cast the spell yourself.
You are the best person to cast your love spell. While it’s possible to hire a professional to cast a spell on you, it’s not advisable. To truly be absorbed into your spells, learn to cast them yourself. You are the only one who knows how passionate you are about your desires. You are the only one who visualizes them every day and can articulate them precisely as you cast your spell.
Spellcasting involves a meditative element. Focusing on what you desire as you cast your spell yourself will make it far more powerful than if someone else was casting it on your behalf.
- Cast the spell ON yourself.
It’s not wise to attempt to control the actions and free will of other people. Despite your current feelings, casting a spell on somebody else may produce results that are not beneficial to you or your desired person.
Casting your spell on yourself will give you more control over its outcome. Focusing your love spells on yourself will reward you with optimism and love. Your positive energy, faith, and understanding of your desired goals will naturally manifest the outcome that the universe knows is best for you.
- Form rituals to enhance your spell.
The most successful spells are reinforced every day. To bring about your desired outcome, you must continue focusing on your spell after you cast it. In most cases, this means you must remain positive and ask for love to come into your life. To do this, create mantras to repeat to yourself while you go about your day during your morning run, yoga session, or bath. Concentrate on how you will feel when you find love.
- Stay alert for signs your spell worked.
The outcomes of spells aren’t always obvious. Remain present in the moment and watch for signs. Since you’re the source of your love spell, you may find it difficult to recognize when the spell starts working. If you’re constantly pining away for your ex-lover while the cutie at the coffee shop talks to you more every day, you may be missing the result because you’re not fully aware of what’s going on around you. Be alert and open to accept what the universe is doing and telling you.
- Be positive.
After you cast your love spell, stay optimistic and positive. Negative energy pushes your desires away from you. Doubting the effectiveness of your spell will feed it with negativity and sabotage its results. Have faith and believe.
- Have patience.
Don’t expect your spell to begin working immediately. Just as everything else in nature grows and thrives, your spell may take some time. Rest assured that it will be worth waiting for.
Love spells really can work if you take the time to learn how they work, and invest in your own spells. They may work in surprising ways, and not necessarily in the ways you expected them to. The keys are to trust yourself and nature, be patient and optimistic, keep the door open so true love can enter without hindrance, and stay open to the possible outcomes.